Your wedding day is one of the most memorable you will have in your lifetime. When you look out at your friends and family and they are there supporting you it is hard not to cry as this happy day is the start of a new life, one that is filled with love and happy times ahead. When a couple begins the process of planning their wedding, the main aspects must be agreed on, but the woman usually gets to decide what the wedding will look like in a general sense. She will pick the flowers as well as the colors that will be used for the decorations. The man usually sits back and puts in his two cents here and there, but overall, this is her day, one that she has been waiting for her whole life. Just like when you asked her questions about her ring size and what kinds of diamonds and rings she liked, you can also ask about her plans for her wedding. This way, it would be possible for you to plan the wedding for her using that information. A surprise wedding sounds like a good idea, but it must be properly planned for it to have the impact that you will want.
Although rare, a surprise wedding has been completed where the groom asked all of the right questions about what was wanted by his fiancé on their wedding day. He invited all the important people and made all of the plans with some help. He surprised her by setting up a fake retirement party for a friend and instead, met her at the entrance and let her know it was her wedding day. She was clearly in shock but loved the idea. He also set up her bedroom there so that she had access to everything that she may have needed for the ceremony. He was very meticulous and included every last detail including the Martha Stewart lights and mason jars with candles. The bridesmaids were all there in attendance and everything went well. She had a smile on her face the entire time, so she was obviously very pleased with his execution and it saved her all that time that she would have spent on the planning of her own wedding. It shows a lot of love and attention on his part to ask all of those questions, actually listen, and execute these elaborate plans.
A surprise wedding may not be for everyone. Some women want to do all of the work as that is part of the excitement of getting married. If you know that your fiancé is dreading planning your wedding, this may be a good way to get it done and save her the headaches and hassles of all of that work. Make sure you know her well and do the right thing as you don’t want to start your new, married life with any resentment. Some simple probing questions should do the trick, so make the right decision when the time comes, it could make all the difference in the world.