Sep 07

Months and sometimes even years go into a wedding being planned and during this time many decisions are made with extreme care. The decisions that are made are ones that will forever be reflected in the memories of the bride and groom as well as their guests and also the wedding pictures of that perfect day. There is also another reminding factor of the hard work and beautiful outcome of a wedding as well as the marriage it commences and that is the wedding ring and like all other details of the wedding, this too should be chosen with extreme care.

gold_ring_diamond_1361930_l.jpgBoth the brides and the groom’s wedding ring is a symbol of their love and commitment and should reflect that as well as compliment their own individual style. This is a ring that will be worn for life so finding the right ring is crucial. While some couples agree on matching wedding bands, others may find that they are happier with choosing their own individual styles of wedding rings.

When choosing matching wedding rings or individual styles of wedding rings, it is imperative that many selections are seen therefore the right choice is made. Many couples find that shopping online yields them the best results since many different rings can be browsed and no rushing from store to store during their business hours is needed. Online jewelers are also a popular method in shopping for wedding rings because they are able to stock more designs of rings. Selections of diamond wedding rings for her in many different carat weights, diamonds cuts, and designs are available for the women who want a ring to match her engagement ring and for the men; the new precious metals such as titanium and stainless steel are also available in combination with other precious metals.

Sep 05

619224_happiness_ring.jpgThe search has begun! You have decided to propose to that special person in your life and it is now time to start searching for wedding rings but as you enter every jewelry shop you find yourself flabbergasted by all of the options available. You start losing confidence in choosing wedding rings because you start to doubt your decision-making ability but there are ways that you can get help for this situation.

Picking out wedding rings is not a simple task. You may know your soon to be fiancé very well but the truth is, you are scared of making the wrong choice. Well there are some things that you can do to assist you with making the right choice. It is always a good idea to consult with your loved ones family and friends. They probably have purchased jewelry for them in the past and are fully aware of their style and taste when it comes to wedding rings. In fact, do not be surprised if they can tell you exactly the wedding ring that was noticed in a local jewelry store or a local department store. People dream about getting married all of their lives so it is not an unfamiliar topic to discuss wedding rings throughout life.

Once you have determined your loved one’s style and taste in wedding rings than you can start working on finding the best price available. You can search locally but you should always check online before making a purchase to ensure that you get the best possible deal available. Many online jewelers will offer discounted wedding rings. Do not be surprised if you find the exact wedding ring online at a discounted price.

Aug 27

Yes, you’ve heard it before that a diamond is a girl’s best friend but the truth is, it can be the man’s best friend too. Think about it. Think about the leverage a man earns just by dropping the hint that a diamond is on his mind. Don’t you know that when used wisely that the mere mention of glittering stones can get a man everything he wants? Yes, it’s true and yet, it is often forgotten.

girl_diamond_surprise.jpgA woman who has marriage on the brain will immediately ooze sweetness if she knows her boyfriend has been browsing online jewelry stores. She’ll immediately become the epitome of kindness when she knows he is a serious shopper in search of the “big D” and that doesn’t stand for divorce!

Diamond-mentions are far better than any man can hope for because a lady with marriage on the brain will become transformed into the domestic version of what a man might want in a wife. She’ll cook with passion in her eyes and bake cookies or brownies to perfection. Enjoy! It may not last long!

Yes, a mention of the gold circle encasing a stone meant for long-term commitments can immediately gain any man the upper hand. He can talk the woman of his dreams into becoming the woman who really is the one in his dreams! She’ll be willing to sit through any ballgame, enjoy a night of poker with the guys and do what she can to be the glowing and appreciative girlfriend. You’ll think twice before sliding that diamond ring on her finger because once you do…it’s all over! Then, the planning begins and you are pushed to the side until she needs you again which will likely be on your wedding day and not a moment sooner!

Aug 23

wedding_dress1.jpgPopular Wedding Customs Explained

American weddings tend to depend heavily on traditions. All weddings have personal touches, but some things never change. For instance consider the procession down the aisle, the positioning of the bride and groom, the attendants present — all these things are based in tradition, even though few realize why, and even less even notice the traditions! Many of these traditions have been in place since the medieval period, and most are somehow based on a superstition. Here are a few traditions explained, for the more curious brides and grooms.

The Dress

In wedding tradition white has always represented purity. To this day, women who get married a second time sometimes choose a pearl color or a similar off-white, and reserve solid white for their first wedding only. However, the purity behind the wedding dress tradition is usually ignored, because little girls dream of wearing a beautiful flowing white dress down the aisle from an early age, and stick with those dreams when the time comes. White has been chosen as a traditional wedding color for centuries, but it didn’t always represent purity (in Biblical times, the color blue represented purity). The first known white wedding dress was worn by Anne of Brittany in 1499, for her marriage to Louis XII of France. Until then, women simply wore their best dress, whatever color it may have been. White is sometimes considered the color of mourning, which seems approriate became the bride is leaving her family behind to start a new life with her husband. In Roman times, white symbolized a joyful celebration. Until recently it has symbolized purity, and now it is mostly considered as a symbol of happiness.

The Veil

Traditionally, the veil symbolized the bride’s virginity, innocence, and modesty. She remains under the veil also to symbolize that her husband has pledged to protect her. The veil also represents male dominance. If the bride lift’s the veil herself, presenting herself to her husband, she is seen as more independent. Veils came into fashion in the United States when Nelly Curtis wedded George Washington’s aid, Major Lawrence Lewis. Lewis had seen her previously standing behind a milky curtain and told her how beautiful she was. In order to maintain this beauty, she veiled herself for the ceremony.

Something Old, Something New...

This tradition dates back to Victorian times, and is often incorporated into weddings today. “Something old” represents the link the bride has to her family and the past. “Something new” represents good fortune and the hope the bride has for the future with her new husband and family. “Something borrowed” is to remind the bride that her friends and family will be there for her in a time of need. Traditionally, the borrowed item is supposed to come from a happily married woman, so that the woman passes some of her wedding bliss onto the new bride. “Something blue” is the symbol of faithfulness and loyalty. In ancient Israel, brides were a blue ribbon in their hair to symbolize their fidelity. Typically the blue item worn by modern brides is the garter.

Bridesmaids

In ancient Roman times, the tradition was to dress the maids similarly to the bride, so as to confuse evil spirits trying to kidnap the bride. The maids also had the job of fending off unsuitable suitors. Another tradition is that the Maids would just like the bride to fool mortals who wished evil upon the couple — perhaps a rejected suitor.

The Bestman

The Bestman tradition stems from many centuries ago, when a groom could forcibly take his wife-to-be, or kidnap her from her family if she or the family disapproved of him and the union. Often he would meet resistance from the bride’s male family members or other suitors, so he would take along his best man to help him fight for the woman. The Bestman remained by the Groom’s side during the wedding, armed and alert, because the possibility remained that the family would attack at the wedding to get back the bride.

The Bride Stands on the Left, Right?

This dates back to Anglo-Saxon times, when the groom would often have to defend his bride against kidnappers during the ceremony. The bride stood on the groom’s left hand side so that his sword arm was free to attack or defend.

Seating

In ancient times, marriage was often used to resolve conflicts and threats of war. Prior to the Union, the tribes of the bride and groom were still hostile, and therefore were seated on opposite sides to prevent bloodshed.

Giving Away the Bride

Women used to the property of men, and daughters the property of their fathers. The father had to consent to release “ownership” of his daughter to the groom, by giving her away. Now the tradition represents the blessing of the bride’s family upon the union.

First Kiss

kiss.jpgIn many cultures, it was not customary for the bride and groom to share affection prior to being married. In fact, in some cultures the groom would not even see his bride’s face until the ceremony was complete. because of this, the first kiss has always been more than a simple sign of affection. It has long been a token of bonding — the exchange of spirts between the bride and groom, as each partner sends part of their soul into the other, where it remains eternally.

Aug 22

619224_happiness_ring.jpgA bride knows how dear her bridesmaids are to not only just her but to the wedding itself and this makes the tradition to give each bridesmaid a present one that requires a high level of sentimental value. Women that are soon to be wed become masters of multi tasking and because of this when it is time to pick out presents for the bridesmaids many women choose bridal jewelry that can be worn not only on the bride’s special day, but on days afterwards as well.

There is a little carefulness that should be taken when shopping bridal jewelry for the bridal party. Why? It has been reported that woman are more opt to buy jewelry for themselves over receiving them as gifts which means that they may be a little jaded when it comes to picking out certain styles for other woman. Woman commonly don’t buy fine pieces of jewelry for other woman so when a bride decides on bridal jewelry for her bridal party she should shop with care.

The first thing to keep in mind is that while a bride does not want her bridesmaids dresses to look tacky by picking dresses that would not be flattering to her bridesmaids she should do the same with bridal jewelry. Instead of going with matching pieces of bridal jewelry for the bridesmaids, try opening up to other ideas such as bridal jewelry that has the same gemstone or bridal jewelry in the same precious metal and style. By opening up to other opportunities all the while trying to keep the pieces similar yet unique to each girl, it will be easy to not only give the bridesmaids a little more sparkle on your great day, but also an awesome present that they will be touched by because of the care that was taken for each individual style that was selected just for them.

Aug 22

bride_and_groom.jpgWhen someone gets married they like to follow the tradition that has been set before them. The idea of marrying the one they love in a wedding that has true meaning for everyone in the family is appealing to even the most contemporary bride. It is a great idea to continue traditions through the years from the dress to the diamond engagement ring. Everything has a place, and it all comes together on one big day.

The dress you choose is often white and as traditional as possible. Some brides wear their mother or grandmothers dress for a sentimental and traditional reason. They like the fact that they can fit into the dress, and most of all that the love their mother and father shared is represented in her wedding day. White dresses are by far the most commonly worn dress on women’s wedding days throughout the nation and maybe even the world. The dress is the big symbolic trading of responsibility from the father to the new husband. The man gets his daughters hand in marriage and in the past also the woman’s innocence. The white dress has a lot to do with the meaning of the wedding as a whole.

However the most symbolic and meaningful part of the wedding is the exchanging of rings. The rings are symbol of love, trust, and a new family. A diamond engagement ring is worn to show the world she is betrothed. It also will be worn with her wedding band for the rest of her life. The diamond engagement ring is a circle for a reason and some believe it means the circle of love and trust between the newly weds.

Aug 14

657032_in_love_and_in_paris.jpgYou have finally found the perfect woman to spend the rest of your life with. You have done all of the research on diamond rings and you have bought her the perfect engagement ring that you know she will just love. Now comes the hardest part of all, how to actually pop the question.

You want your proposal to be one of the most memorable days of you and your future wife’s lives, but you just cannot think of a romantic way to do it. There are several traditional ways of proposing. One of the most popular ways is to take your girlfriend to a very elegant restaurant and propose over a nice meal. Or, if you live by a beach you could take her for a romantic evening walk and propose at sunset as the tide washes over your feet.

Maybe you are proposing to a very adventurous woman who would not like the traditional proposals. If this is the case, you should propose while you are doing one of her favorite activities. If she enjoys hiking, take her to beautiful place that she has never been to before and when you reach the top of the mountain that you are hiking you could propose. She would enjoy this type of proposal much more than the traditional way because you took the time to think about what she enjoys instead of proposing like everyone else does.

It does not matter if you choose a very traditional way to propose of if you decide to take an untraditional route, if you take the time to make it a special day your proposal is guaranteed to be a memorable one.

Aug 02

wedding_band.jpgYou’ve already been asked the big question, you have the date set and the church picked out, have you picked your wedding ring yet? Usually when you receive an engagement ring you are allowed to pick out the wedding ring to go with it. Wedding rings are the most meaningful detail during the entire wedding. The ring is a circle of love and trust, meant to last forever.

When you go to choose the ring you will wear forever keep in mind your personal preferences. You should stick to a style you feel most comfortable wearing and the style that feels the best on your hand. Trendy styles are most often not as popular because the style will be over within the next few years. You should choose a classic style that will allow for your happiness to remain with the ring you chose through the years. The more classic styles are great for wedding rings because they are also the most historical. The styles have withstood time and many marriages.

The classic rings include solitaire engagement and plain bands, yellow gold, and more dignified looks. The wedding rings you have to choose from may be decked out in diamonds, and sit taller from your hand, but be sure to use your instinct. Choose the ring that fits you. Don’t choose a ring that you will need to fit into. Wedding rings are a pleasant reminder of your husband, and should be worn close to your heart. The ring is a way for others to know your marital status, and for you to remember your wedding day every day of your life.

Aug 01

729535_sunset_kiss.jpgFor many years you have looked for the perfect person in your life and for many years you have probably waited to ask her that ever so important question, will you marry me?

You want this special moment to be remembered for the rest of her life and you are willing to do whatever it takes to make that happen. You are searching vigorously looking for the perfect ring for your loved one but your local town and surrounding areas do not offer exactly what you are looking for in the way of style. You refuse to give up on finding the ideal ring and finally you discover that you can design your own engagement ring.

Electing to design your own engagement ring opens up all kinds of doors to what you can do. Every thought you put in to designing your own engagement ring will be vital to the outcome of the final product. This is exactly what you want because you can now design your own engagement ring that sends an impression that she will remember for the rest of her life.

Now that you know that you want to design your own engagement ring you must figure out how you can do that. You quickly realize that online jewelers offer the customer the opportunity to do exactly that. You can actually take all of the time you want to design your own engagement ring because you will be doing it from the comfort of your own home. You can be as indecisive as you want until you know and have established the perfect ring for your love one

Jul 31

Ways to Propose

Posted By Terrell in Wedding 1 Comment »

awed082.jpgThere is no more wonderful time in a person’s life than getting married, but before you can go through that wonderful experience you have to propose to the one that you love. You have put a lot of time and effort into buying the perfect engagement ring and you want your proposal to be just as special. When you are considering how to propose it is important to take your loved ones personality into consideration. It will be a much more special proposal if you keep your loved ones interest and hobbies in mind. Here are just a couple of suggestions that you could consider when you decide to “pop the question”.

You could cook your loved one her favorite meal (either for lunch or a romantic dinner) After dinner you could present the ring in a decorative box on her dessert plate, get down on one knee and ask for her hand in marriage.

You could also make a nice picnic lunch and go to the park or the beach. You could pack easy to eat finger foods like breads, cheese, fruits and her favorite wine. After you have finished your lunch you could go for a short walk along the flowers or on the beach and you could propose with the beautiful scenery in the background.

It does not matter how you finally decide to propose. You could go with a traditional proposal or a very non traditional proposal, but as long as you keep your loved ones interests in mind she is sure to remember the proposal for the rest of her life.