Murray M.

Here is my story.
Getting engaged was one of the most wonderful moments I have had thus far in my life. I cannot think of any moment quite like it, where you have so many different emotions all at once – excitement, anticipation, joy, love, nervousness, even a little fear as you make yourself vulnerable to heartbreak. Thankfully for me, the story had a very happy ending.
I had been planning the weekend for weeks, and was very eager to make it a surprise. I had returned from a month long work related trip to South Africa on February 14, and thus I missed Valentine’s Day. Considering my long absence, missing this “key” day of romance was probably not the best idea. Ultimately though it provided a nice excuse to have a romantic weekend get away a couple weeks later. With most of the plans in place, the one remaining and somewhat essential piece was securing the engagement ring. While in South Africa, I had hoped to find the perfect diamond, but I came back empty handed. As time was running out, I needed help, and thankfully I found Jana from Abazias Diamonds who came through in the clutch. Armed with the ring, I felt confident as the weekend of March 3rd approached.
On Saturday, March 4th, I picked Muriel up from her certification exam that she had to take that morning. We planned on going straight from Boston to the small town of Weston, Vermont. As I had been out of town so much, the “excuse” for the weekend was a delayed Valentine’s Day celebration. Upon arrival at the inn where we stayed, the first surprise of the weekend was an hour long in room massage. As we relaxed in the room before going down to dinner, I brought up the idea of going ring shopping in two weeks when we had a free weekend. I was pleased (and relieved) when this idea was met with exuberance, but little did she know that the ring would be forthcoming very shortly. We then went downstairs for a nice romantic dinner for two by candlelight. Towards the end of the meal, I excused myself to go to the restroom, but instead I hurried to the car and took all the stuff out of the trunk that I had packed prior to picking her up that morning. I then went up to our! room and made all the preparations for the next surprise of the weekend.
When I returned to the table (after a somewhat conspicuously long absence), I told Muriel that I had brought a special cake up from Boston and so we would have dessert in the room. We left the restaurant and returned to the room. When she opened the door, the room was aglow in numerous candles, with a fire blazing, and Frank Sinatra playing in the background. The bed was covered in rose petals and a cake with some champagne was on a table by the fire. As we entered the room, I exclaimed – “Happy Valentine’s Day.” Muriel – knowing that I had never really celebrated Valentine’s Day in the past – was mildly perplexed, but nonetheless pleased by the rather extensive preparations I had made. Quite happy to go with the flow, she moved into the room and made herself comfortable by the fire. My attention immediately went to the cake and I declared that it was now dessert time and that she was in charge of the cake cutting. She obliged, but upon cutting into the c! ake, she found the center of it rather hard, and could only remove a partial piece of cake. What remained in the center of the cake was a wooden box. With her mind still on the belated Valentine’s Day theme, she assumed that a nice pair of earrings was forthcoming. I removed the box from the cake and then getting down on one knee I opened the box to expose a different kind of ring. It all finally clicked in Muriel’s mind as she saw me going down on one knee. I asked her to marry me and happily, my question was greeted with a “Yes”. The element of surprise had been attained, and the objective had been reached and I was (and am) a happy man.
Murray